Warning....rambling post alert!! :grinz
Concrete shrinks, that's why it cracks. The more water you add (to improve the workability) the worse the shrinkage will be, and the less strength it will have. Every 1" increase in the slump you get by adding water, will reduce the strength by roughly 10%. 1 gallon per yard will give a 1" increase in slump (rule of thumb) Not much, considering that the recipe calls for only about 30 gallons/yd to begin with. High strength concrete as used in the Interstate system has half that (very stiff) the workability comes with high-performance admixtures.
The batch plant has admix chemicals (plasticizers) they can add to make the concrete easier to work for a while, then it will flash off, and the mud will revert to it's normal state for it's 'age'. If the plant is close by, they can add it at the plant, if not they can send the measured amount out with the driver, and he can add it when you are ready. Have him roll the drum back to bring the mud to the drum opening, pour the admix onto the mud, have him mix it at full speed for 5 minutes. (or at least 70 rotations) He can use a minimal amount of water to wash the chemical off the fins if necessary, but no more than 2 gallons for a 8 yd mix.
Concrete shrinks in all 3 dimensions, for saw cuts, it's best to cut somewhere between 10' and 16'. the cuts need to be made withing 12 hours of the initial set of the concrete, provided nothing has really slowed down the curing process. The depth of cut should be 25% of the slab depth. This will give it a definite weak spot for the inevitable crack to start. you want to be in control of where the cracking is going to occur.
If pouring directly on you sub-base (no poly) be sure to wet it down so that it doesn't steel moisture from the concrete. If you're pouring on insulation as you state, then there shouldn't be an issue.
You can 'tool' in the control joints. but this is less certain to ensure the crack is in that spot.
Be sure to use sulphate resistant cement, and air entrainment, for the freeze-thaw resistance.
A lot of guys will tie the tubing on top of the rebar, because it is easier, but it also puts it closer to the saw cuts. If you know in advance where you are going to put the saw cuts, you could still put it on top of the bar, but make an allowance and sling it lower in the cut area, just be absolutely sure that is where you cut. I pumped concrete for a 20,000 sq ft shop and the plumbers put the tube on top, sure easier for them, but the contractor had to fix about 17 failures in the tube. He said afterward, that it should be underneath, but how to maintain the spacing? He said he'd lay down that cheapo welded wire reinforcing to lay out the pipe, then place the rebar, then tie the WWR up to the bottom of the rebar, VOILA!!
As far as color in concrete goes, it's expensive, but I've heard of guys using the cans of color powder for chalk lines. Throw a can in each truck, it's available in red, blue, brown, yellow, black.....just be sure to have the proportions right according to the size of the load. Not so bad for equal-size trucks, but if you have 6 and 9 yard loads coming, that's where it's tricky. The concrete guys may not like you doing it on site though, they must make certain their drum is absolutely clean if they are going to another slab next....it doesn't matter if they are doing piles, nobody will ever see the color of the concrete, but it will make a mess of a slab that isn't supposed to have color.
If you're uncertain of your concrete placing and finishing skills, do it in a couple different stages, a lot less stress, (time, tide and concrete wait for no man :wink) and you wont need a saw. Also, schedule the concrete for early morning, Slabs need attention, the guys pouring walls can do theirs in the afternoon, their mud doesn't need any attention after they've floated the top, they can go home....you'll still be baby-sitting yours.
Curing is a very important step....if the surface dries before it has cured, you will have a weak and chalky surface. Same goes for spraying water on to improve the finishing with a bullfloat. You destroy the water/cement ratio, and screw up the air entrainment in that thin layer, resulting in poor performing concrete.
99% of problems with a concrete slab are related to poor finishing. It's more or an art than a science. Batching concrete is just following a strict recipe, finishing is 'a pinch of this, a dash of that'....some guys can get away with that, others....can't.